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id=\u0022comment-37686\u0022 class=\u0022js-ajax-comments-id-37686 js-comment\u0022\u003E\n    \u003Cmark class=\u0022hidden\u0022 data-comment-timestamp=\u00221553199392\u0022\u003E\u003C\/mark\u003E\n\n      \u003Cfooter\u003E\n      \u003Carticle\u003E\n  \n            \u003Cdiv\u003E  \u003Ca href=\u0022\/users\/ninifiremecom\u0022 hreflang=\u0022en\u0022\u003E\u003Cimg loading=\u0022lazy\u0022 src=\u0022\/sites\/default\/files\/styles\/thumbnail\/public\/default_images\/default_profile_photo.png?itok=W3ym34Dl\u0022 width=\u0022100\u0022 height=\u0022100\u0022 alt=\u0022Profile picture for user ninifire@me.com\u0022 \/\u003E\n\n\u003C\/a\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\n      \u003C\/article\u003E\n\n      \u003Cp\u003ESubmitted by \u003Cspan\u003ENiniS\u003C\/span\u003E on Thu, 03\/21\/2019 - 13:16\u003C\/p\u003E\n\n            \n      \u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/37686#comment-37686\u0022 hreflang=\u0022und\u0022\u003EPermalink\u003C\/a\u003E\n    \u003C\/footer\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv\u003E\n          \n      \u003Ch3 class=\u0022comment-title\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/37686#comment-37686\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022 hreflang=\u0022und\u0022\u003EAnd yes the types of\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n      \n        \n            \u003Cdiv\u003E\u003Cp\u003EAnd yes the types of stretches and things are great for babies but GENTLY.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Cp\u003Enot vigorously.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n      \u003Cul class=\u0022links inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/login?destination=\/blog\/baby_massage_traditional_indian_style%23comment-form\u0022\u003ELog in\u003C\/a\u003E or \u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/register?destination=\/blog\/baby_massage_traditional_indian_style%23comment-form\u0022\u003Eregister\u003C\/a\u003E to post comments\u003C\/li\u003E\u003C\/ul\u003E\n  \u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003C\/article\u003E\n\u003C\/div\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n\u003Carticle 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hreflang=\u0022und\u0022\u003EPermalink\u003C\/a\u003E\n    \u003C\/footer\u003E\n  \n  \u003Cdiv\u003E\n          \n      \u003Ch3 class=\u0022comment-title\u0022\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/comment\/37653#comment-37653\u0022 class=\u0022permalink\u0022 rel=\u0022bookmark\u0022 hreflang=\u0022und\u0022\u003EI am just unable to believe\u003C\/a\u003E\u003C\/h3\u003E\n      \n        \n            \u003Cdiv\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI am just unable to believe that this massage that made the baby cry the whole time, was good for the baby.\u0026nbsp; I could not have allowed someone to do that to any baby, without putting a stop to it.\u0026nbsp; Yes, some things in life are painful, to heal some problem (for\u0026nbsp; example).\u0026nbsp; But I don\u0027t believe any routine practice should be, regardless of whether the baby stops complaining after the 3rd massage.\u0026nbsp; That baby may have simply \u0022given up\u0022 complaining, realizing that her\/his cries were never going to be listened to, appropriately.\u0026nbsp; I think the shock and helplessness of not being able to prevent some \u0022caregiver\u0022 from hurting him\/her, does damage to the baby\u0027s sense of control of its body, its ability to adequately express its needs and have them taken seriously, and therefore to the developing strength and self-integrity of the baby\u0027s mental, psycological, and emotional health, damaging the connection the baby has with its mother.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Cp\u003EI am sorry if I sound harsh, but I am completely serious, even as I know I could be wrong -- but I think inflicting pain unnecessarily is harmful, and the younger the person, the worse it is.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003C\/div\u003E\n      \u003Cul class=\u0022links inline\u0022\u003E\u003Cli\u003E\u003Ca href=\u0022\/user\/login?destination=\/blog\/baby_massage_traditional_indian_style%23comment-form\u0022\u003ELog in\u003C\/a\u003E or \u003Ca 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That said, there are some oppsing arguments \/ mitigating factors.\u003C\/p\u003E\u003Col\u003E\u003Cli\u003EBabies cry in many different ways. This baby was not screaming. He certainly got our attention and had us concerned and asking questions, but it didn\u0027t communicate hurt or damage to anyone present. It\u0027s challenging to communicate the real situation in an authentic way - I\u0027m not sure I succeeded in this blog post. But it could also be that no matter how I described the situation and even if soe of you were present, you would not be able to tolerate what happened.\u003C\/li\u003E\u003Cli\u003EI\u0027ve certainly experienced babies crying on account of something being unfamiliar. This baby was old enough to be disturbed by someone who was not his mother handling him, and by the unfamiliarity of the process. I\u0027ve experienced this when teaching mothers how to carry their babies on their backs. If the baby is older than about eight months, the baby might cry and reach out to their mother. The mother stays close and comforts the baby, as this baby\u0027s mother did, but usually decides that the lesson is worth learning.\u003C\/li\u003E\u003Cli\u003ELearning from other cultures is tricky and there\u0027s a balance to be struck between acknowledging and valuing one\u0027s own sensibilities and exploring across one\u0027s boundaries in the domain of other cultures. 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